After-Birth Recovery Pads (Homemade)

So we are still pregnant today which gave me a little more time to prep (during my 2 year old's nap time)... I was waiting on a shipment of supplies which arrived a couple days ago!

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So, what kind of after-birth care can you prepare on your own? Well, for anyone who has given birth - you know that it doesn't always go smoothly and sometimes, you can tear you vaginal walls or can  most of the time, with a very sore and swollen pelvic region for weeks! Because you have a huge open wound, you are not supposed to take a true bath nor submerge in water/ocean/or liquids (shower ok but not a bathtub) until your bleeding has stopped (average woman is 4-8 weeks) due to any uncontrolled bacteria getting into your open pelvis and going all the way up into your uterus since you have an open cervix... (yikes!).  And so, the options are not very much - a siz bath (the hospital gives this mini booty-sit-in-bath that you use only a couple times and throw out) or you can use what many wives-tales talk of; Witch Hazel Pads. 

I did not use witch hazel pads or any real remedy to relieve my pelvis after my first 2 births, but now, I know better and have access to essential oils which really have been a blessing in coping with pregnant pains as well as all stress and health issues in general... Essential Oils mixed with the plant essence "Witch Hazel" is supposed to be one of the gentle and safe ways you can indeed soothe any rips, stretched out vaginal skin and vaginal-varicose veins (which is an untalked of symptom of pregnancy). Freeze your remedy soaked pads beforehand so they are ready for you when you come home form the hospital (or are ready cleared from your midwife at your home birth). 

You need:

  1. Cloth Pads (reusable menstrual kind or Hemp Pad inserts) or Clean Wash Cloths
  2. Witch Hazel Liquid (no other additives)
  3. Essential Oils
  4. Bowl to mix in (preferably not plastic as essential oils can bind with plastic and pull toxins into mixture)
  5. a mason jar or some kind of closable container that can freeze
  6. Freezer or Fridge
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Heres what I did:

I poured about 1/3 cup of Witch Hazel (I got mine online - message me for info) into a mason jar

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Essential Oils that are proven to relieve the skin, surrounding veins, calm mind, and are safe for wounds and baby (in case you touch it while pregnant or it gets onto baby):

3 Drops of Doterra Lavendar

3 Drops of Doterra Geranium

3 Drops of Doterra Frankensince 

(To purchase, you can contact me for info and Wholesale Rates or buy direct at https://www.mydoterra.com/sarahnaomichristensen/#/)

Close Mason Jar, shake/swirl together to even out the oils.

Open the Pads or the Wash Cloths to lay out in a bowl.

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Pour the Mixture evenly over the inside of the pads (the part that will touch your perineum).

Let the pads soak a little in the mixture before rolling them up and fitting them into the Mason Jar to be stored. 

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*You may pour remaining mixture from bowl into the mason jar to further soak the pads, however, you do not want enough liquid to freeze the cloths shut where they will be difficult to open).

Close jar, freeze, and LABEL (so they don't get touched by others or contaminated).

 

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Homemade Baby Powder

So, if you didn't know (cause I didn't when I was a new mom), most baby powders that are store bought have talc in it or additives that cause irritation or long term health issues ... Which drove me to try more expensive baby powders from more natural based brands. I love Honest & BurtsBees powders, I also loved hearing my aunties day how they used to use cornstarch or root powders from regular cooking shelves! I wanted to try it and mixed in essential oils from recipes I found from other mommies:

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Arrowroot Starch: Similar to cornstarch (you can use cornstarch instead), it is a plant derived ground-up powder that is often used for thickening. It is also a gluten free choice and an egg substitute with a nice white color (why I like it over cornstarch). I bought the Bobs Red Mill brand from Wholefoods.

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Roman Chamomile Essential Oil: Essential oils are the extracted essence of a plant, this one is a flower. Chamomile is one of a few popular BabySafe* (not all are) oils that are also soothing to skin. Chamomile is known to ease emotions and calm and ease stress of both body and mind so it's a common choice for baby products. Other common baby product choices are Lavender, Orange, and Ylang-Ylang. I use the Doterra Brand and sell at both retail and wholesale if you want (click here to browse products online

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I simply scooped a few spoons of ground arrowroot and dropped in a few drops of essential oil (2-5 drops for a 3 ounce is fine) and mixed with a whisk until the drops had evenly settled throughout powder. I then scooped powder into a shaker and tightened cap. 

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It's a finer texture then cornstarch so a little more shaking is what it takes sometimes but it works great!  

Products for 0-3 months

So a lot of new moms have been asking me, "What do I really need for a baby? I mean, all these products just can't be necessary, right?" Well, actually, you need more than you realize but it's not all the fun stuff... The things you don't know you will need are the things for a mess you haven't experienced yet, to help you survive the weeks of 2hour-a-night-sleep, or the type or product that will work according to how your living habits are with your partner... Those are the reasons you might need those items. Even more so, babies' needs and capabilities change every so many weeks that what might work initially, won't work in the next month, and therefore, you will be drastically looking for a new item to fit that change once it comes - it might be easier to have it already on hand... In order to explain it as best I can to the new mom (or dad) who doesn't know, I made a list of the items I used with my babies. Each item soon will have an explanation as to WHY it was helpful, when it no longer was helpful, and where to find it in Hawaii (or by brand online). Hopefully, this helps to ease the overwhelming surprise of after-baby-is-born #IWishWeKnewThisBeforehand...

For Newborn Baby:

The Things They Used the Most

  • swaddle blankets
  • burp cloths
  • mittens
  • hats
  • socks

Clothes - The Basics

  • t-shirts (the button open kind, not pull over)
  • onesies
  • pajamas (that have full button openings for both legs instead of just one side)
  • crib shoes

Carriers, Carseats,  & Strollers

  • baby wraps
  • slings
  • Ergo & infant insert
  • infant carseat
  • carseat strap cushions
  • stroller (that works with the infant carseat) 
  • double stroller for two babies 
  • baby tent for beach

Diapering 

Bathing

  • baths
  • infant inserts
  • shampoo (special one for croup)
  • baby wash
  • wash cloths
  • towels (breathable)

Sleepers & Hangouts

  • Crib
  • Playpen
  • "Bobby" chair cushion
  • co-sleepers
  • Floor Mats
  • swings & bouncers

Hygiene 

  • nail clippers & files
  • hair brush
  • alcohol prep swab (belly button)
  • baby lotions & oils
  • gum cleaners

Medicines & Relievers

  • Motrin
  • teething pills
  • gum tethers
  • rash creme
  • supplements (in breastmilk or direct)

Toys

  • play mat
  • crib mobile
  • rattle
  • stuffed animal
  • carseat mobile
  • tummy time bolster

Feeding

  • bottles for feeding
  • nutrition supply for breastfeeders
  • bottle cooler bag (for daycare or outings)
  • formula options

For Mom:

Sentimentals

  • a baby record book
  • hand printing set or belly mask
  • higher phone storage
  • baby app
  • Baby Photoshoot

Breastfeeding 

House Cleaners 

  • house cleaners (safe)
  • toilet cleaners (safe)
  • dishwasher cleaners (safe)
  • laundry detergent (safe)
  • stain spray (safe)

Daily Help Items for Mom

  • diaper bag
  • water bottles (stock up)
  • waterproof laundry bag (soiled clothing)
  • separate diaper trash
  • car mirror
  • crockpot
  • robo vaccumn
  • pre-made smoothie
  • automatic coffee maker

Recovery Help for Afterbirth

  • bed liners
  • thick pads
  • prenatal vitamins
  • body oil
  • body butter
  • full big panties
  • breast pads
  • bras with strong support (Body by Victoria)
  • Yoga
  • massage
  • spray-bottle for water (in bathroom)